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when does it end?

Post by Lina on Wed Jan 12, 2011 2:00 pm

so ill be 18 this year.. next month itll be 2 years since my mom died. my dad has a girlfriend and is going to marry and im okay with that.

its just that i want to stop missing her. at the same time i feel like i need to miss her because how can i not miss her.. but the point is: it still hurts!

when does it end? i like life now, and it still hurts to miss her..
why isnt this a feeling that fades after a few years?
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Post by Lizzie on Wed Jan 12, 2011 7:37 pm

i love you lina Sad
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Post by GodsBabyGirl on Thu Jan 13, 2011 8:30 pm

You continue to miss her because you continue to love her. You are always going to love your mom, therefore you will always miss your mom. It doesn't go away, it just gets easier. Give yourself some time. Losing a caregiver, let alone a parent, is a huge loss, especially if you had a close relationship with them. I'm praying for you, sweetie.
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Post by Ally on Thu Jan 13, 2011 10:31 pm

hunny, the times when it's really hard, lean on God. His the only one who can ease the pain.
Talk to her when it's helpful, she'll always be with you & you'll always miss her,
but remember, it's not forever, u will see her again in heaven.

I know this isn't very helpful.
But we're all her for you, thinking of you & praying for you.
Keep your supports close & try to live life to the full.
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Re: when does it end?

Post by Lina on Mon Jan 17, 2011 6:09 pm

thank you girls. what u say is true..

thanks, i love yall

((ally, u have a new picture? nice!)
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Post by Krystal on Mon Jan 17, 2011 11:27 pm

It gets easier with time. I lost my granfather who I didn't know very well at a very young age. I was only 8 years old. I see the pictures of him all the time of course and thats when I can say I miss you granpa D(my dad's dad). My other granpa I called Deda(My mom's father). Of course the pain of losing a parent is something i can never imagine at a young age. With Time it gets easier. Still missing them and keeping them in your memory lets god know that you cared for them. He will let your loved one know.
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Post by Lina on Tue Jan 18, 2011 4:19 pm

thank u.

my mom and me were close. i know she loved me even more than i loved her. sometimes i want to be like her and sometimes i dont. she lost her mom when she was yough, and i did too. my dad is differant. im close to him too, but its not the same. my mom would give me a hug and tell me shes proud of me and mean it all the time, no matter what i do.

its almost 2years ago and it hurts so much! so much!. and im telling myself there are worse things,.. and yes, it gets better with time, thats true, but at some moments i cant feel that.

sorry i had to ramble for a moment..
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i miss u

Post by Lina on Fri Apr 01, 2011 3:13 pm

mom i miss u and i wish you were here.

God would you give my mom a hug from me..


i feel so childish for crying about my mom.. al my friends do i argu with their parents. some say they hate their mother.. and what do i do? i cry! like im 5 or something.. i feel stupid, and i get angry at my friends without them even knowing.. im not jealous i just think they shouldnt say things like that cuz.. idk..

okay gotta go on.. gotta look forward..
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